Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Some Updates...

So...here are some updates on the wedding process. We got engaged in January. I told everyone that I was going to enjoy the "engagement" part of being engaged...it actually meant I was too busy with work to even start looking at places. However in April, I started looking quite extensively at ceremony sites and reception halls. Unfortunately, this blog is called "Chitown Bride"...that went out the window when I realized it would be too expensive to have a wedding in downtown Chicago. So I started searching in the suburbs. I could give you the long drawn out story about the fact that I went from place to place, broke down in tears twice, because nothing was exactly what I was looking for. Instead I will give you the short version - the first place I went to after I realized Chicago was out - I fell in love with - Meyer's Castle in Dyer, Ind. BUT I didn't like the price - because it was somewhat out of my budget, so I started looking again. However, came back to Meyer's and realized I wanted it there. Talked to the fiance, cried to my mother...and poof - I decided this is where I want it. Again...not a bridezilla. We signed the deal in early June. The only thing that angered me on the deal - they make you have a wedding coordinator (and it is not cheap)..but whatever. I can AT LEAST check that off the list! Yeah...

So one tip for future brides - buy Bridal Bargains. Probably one of the best books ever to tell you exactly how to save money on weddings. Unfortunately, I have not utilized it completely, because I didn't save any money on the reception part. HOWEVER - I am having a Sunday wedding over Memorial Day weekend, which decreased the prices tremendously.

Friday, June 1, 2007

I am getting married!

Yeah! Excitement, right? I am suppose to be excited about this?! And at first I was...don't get me wrong. I am so thrilled to be getting married. And in the first instant that I said yes to my lovely fiance, I went out and bought about five wedding magazines. Because this is what you do, right? So as I sat down and read every magazine cover to cover - the realization that I had never really ever thought of my dream wedding before hit me. However, everyone around me told me how exciting it would be. The planning, etc. One married friend even told me that you would actually miss it...once the planning was over. Because this is your day! Yeah - my day.

But then the panic set in...and then the realization - what the $#%^ was I doing? So...this blog is my therapy as I go down the path or should I say aisle of matrimony planning. I am no bridezilla. I repeat - I am no bridezilla. That will be my new mantra...lets see if that remains the case.