Thursday, January 31, 2008

Putting It in Perspective

For the last week, I have been somewhat stressed on the most minor details with this wedding, so I felt like this quote from Katherine Heigl put it all in perspective.

"I loved my wedding dress, and now it's in a ball at the bottom of a garmet bag."

I need to keep telling myself that it is about having fun and enjoying ourselves. So what if the pink on my invitation is not the exact reddish pink I wanted!

Saturday, January 26, 2008

Flower Power

We had a florist who I was thrilled with, but we have to use certain vendors with our place and I guess she has decided not to work with them anymore. So it meant we had to find another from their preferred vendors. I was nervous, but actually now really love Lauren - our new florist. Plus - I will give the other florist some credit - she had actually faxed over to Lauren all my ideas which was huge so we were not having to go through the details again. It is funny...a year ago I was dead set on using gerber daisies and or tulips for our bouquets. Since meeting with our new florist - It has changed. She came with these beautiful ideas using another of my fave flowers - peonies. They were gorgeous and the color was beautiful. So here is what we decided on: Centerpieces - peonies in glass vases and votive candles around it. I want something like this.

We are doing peonies for the bouquets. She did tell me that a lot of brides are going away from the white flowers with their dress, so I have decided to stay with the same color as my bridesmaids. (And funny - I actually just came across this argument on Blue Sky Designs).

( www.theknot.com)

And some more bouquets- I absolutely love these because they are so lush and gorgeous.
And then for the boutenaires, we will probably add some color, but might go with tulips or roses.
(www.brides.com)

Some of this might change when she emails me the bill estimate tomorrow, but for now I am so excited on our choices.

Check, Check and Check

I sort of hit a wall with wedding planning this week, so the posts have been few. However, I am coming around and love the fact that we met with our caterer for our tasting, our new florist (long story, we had to change florists) and we had our cake tasting as well. All in one day. I will write more when I am up for it, but I need a nap!

Monday, January 21, 2008

Bridesmaids Shoes

(StudioThisIs)
So this discussion came up over the weekend with two of my bridesmaids - do we have to have matching shoes when you are wearing tea-length dresses? At first my reaction was - yeah... However, all of my bridesmaids have very different tastes, which means they have very different views on shoes. One wants to wear something strappy...another wants something open toe. So do bridesmaids have to wear the same type of shoe? I would rather have all of them be comfortable...anyone have some great advice?

Friday, January 18, 2008

Check your listings...

Hope everyone is tivoing Martha's show today - its her big Wedding show! Miss Peacock, another Chicago Bride, was at the show. Read all about it on wedding bee!

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Crate and Barrel

I went to Crate and Barrel's registry party tonight! Seriously, I had the best time (the free alcohol helped) and actually learned a lot. They close the store down and then had a ton of sales assistants around to answer any of your questions (how many wine glasses should I get?, etc.). I was extremely impressed. Did anyone else go? If you can get to one of their registry parties - I would do it.

One interesting sidenote - I ended up spending part of the night talking to one of the ladies that was an editor on the Real Simple Wedding Magazine. I didn't want to tell her that some of the reviews I saw on other blogs were not favorable towards this new mag...she definitely felt their magazine had it all - inspiration, planning, etc. for all new brides. I buckled and bought one as I was leaving the store - so we will see...

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

To Do List...

I hate going to the knot, because of that ticking time bomb it has on your main page - the lovely countdown of how many days you have until your big day! Today, I went on there and saw that I have 130 days to go. It freaked me out a bit. However, this week I feel like I have progressed on a couple things. I am going to the Crate and Barrel registry party on Thursday night but prior to that I am stopping over to my designer to see my first proof of my invitation. A little excited and a little scared. I hope I like it. A couple things are getting finalized and I am hoping to get nailed down - transportation and hair and makeup. The biggest vent I have is the fact that vendors will not get back to me. Especially hair and makeup folks. Unfortunately, my hair guy is going to be out of town on our wedding weekend, so I have to start from stratch. I easily could do my own make-up but hair is another thing...Once I get those finalized, I feel like I am set (until the next DIY projects - favor boxes, menus, etc.). Yikes!

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Vintage Stamps

I absolutely love this idea from Greer Chicago - Vintage Stamps. The owners of this store will find beautiful vintage stamps from the 1920s to the 1980s and will coordinate them with your wedding theme to use on your invitations!

Monday, January 14, 2008

Some Love to my Photographer


I was psyched when I was looking through Brides Chicago magazine today and found an article on my photographer StudioThisIs. They were also highlighted on Brooklyn Bride's blog yesterday as well!
Here is what Brides Chicago said (unfortunately, I can't find the article online yet).

The Next Wave
We were scouting for a wedding photographer whose shooting style is more Vogue, less high school yearbook, when we came upon StudioThisIs. This photography studio based in Chicago specializes in editorial wedding photography, creating photos that are typical of a high fashion magazine spread. "When we started shooting weddings, we realized we had a gorgeous bride in a couture gown at an incredible venue," says Jeremy Bustos, one of the studio's principal photographers. "It had all the makings of something out of a magazine, so why not shoot it that way." The three photographers behind StudioThisIs are known for scouting unusual locations for wedding portraits - anything from meat-packing warehouse rooftops to scrap steel yards. "It's controlled photo journalism" says Jeremy. "The setup is staged but the moments are real."

Map Totes

I am in love with these bags from Map Tote. We are not getting married downtown, but I still want to try to use these bags for something - maybe as gift bags for my bridesmaids?

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Say hello to our Little Friend...

We had a gift card to Best Buy and ended up buying this - a Flip video camcorder. The fiance's thought was we could use this to tape the wedding because we nixed the videographer. I laughed on this one but seriously - this thing is genius and so small! At first I hedged, but it is very easy to use and I just took this video two seconds ago. Ok, yes - I hit the deep end and video taped my wedding dress on a hanger. BUT my friend in Cali has been harrassing me to see the dress (sorry Ang - not the best because it has been sitting on a closet door for the last two months but you get the idea).


Saturday, January 12, 2008

If I was a Southern Belle...

Last weekend, we went over to Oak Alley Plantation in Vachaerie, La., about sixty miles from New Orleans. It is a plantation which was built in 1837-39 and famous for its alley of 28 evenly spaced giant live oak trees. When I got there, the first thing I said was how beautiful would it be to have a wedding here! Well, I inquired and of course, they do weddings there. They even have little bed and breakfast cottages.

Absolutely gorgeous and a great story behind the "big house". Jacques Telesphore Roman had the house built for his new wife, Celina.

(Oak Alley Plantation website)

(Bray Danielle Photography)

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Check it Off...

Since my dress arrived in November, I have been constantly looking for cool wedding shoes, but didn't want to pay a fortune. I would usually end up perusing MyGlassSlipper.com and ebay for them. I saw these on My Glass Slipper but alas found out they are last season and were sold out. Damn you!Then I started looking on ebay's site. I found a pair of Jimmy Choo and Vera Wang shoes for pretty good prices, HOWEVER none of them were my size.

A couple weeks ago (I am so sorry classicbride!), I found these on ebay and put in a bid. I thought they would work but didn't know for sure until I tried them on last night. Well they perfectly match my dress and I only spent 50 bucks (plus shipping). Yeah!
Some advice on if you start looking for shoes on ebay - make sure to narrow your search to your size only...l fell in love with the Jimmy Choos and even tried talking myself into thinking I could fit into a size 7 shoe. Also - start early when looking for shoes on ebay. I checked daily on ebay beginning in early November- and just bought these two weeks ago.

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

SEC-ond Again!

Ok...I am back from New Orleans! We will not talk about the Game. Up until Monday night, we had the best time! I had not been back there since 2003, so it was so nice to see the city and it looks like it is coming back. There is still crazy Hurricane Katrina reminders (ex: cars still in parking garages that were there before the hurricane hit and the owners have never come back to get them, etc...We even walked past a theater that has been abandoned and the posters in the "Now Showing" windows are plays that were going to be opening the week of Aug. 27, 2005. Just crazy). But the city has recovered very well and the French Quarter was just hopping crazy with LSU and OSU fans all weekend.

Other exciting news -yesterday was the one-year anniversary of our engagement!

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Umm...Chocolate...

Continuing with the bridesmaids gift trend, how about a gift certificate to this yummy Chicago place - Chocolate For Your Body? Doesn't it sound so good and if you order the Bridal Spa Package, the bride receives a customized facial, massage, lash extensions, manicure and pedicure for free!!

Bridesmaids gifties

I have had a little ADD lately and instead of focusing on a couple things that I probably need to get done, I have been looking all over for the bridesmaids gifts - something that probably coule wait. I really love the idea of giving them a monogram bag and robe (my inspiration came from this knottie bio on Pearls Events blog). I found these bags on Fresh Ink. How adorable are these?! They had a ton more that I could totally see giving to my girls.

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

A Fellow Chicago Blogger

(photo from Imaginative Studio)
Yeah, Chicago! I love coming across another blogger, who hails from our great city - A Windy City Wedding. Welcome! (I have updated my earlier Chicago post). UPDATE: Yeah! I found another great Chicago blogger - It's A Jaime Thing! A big blog hug to you!

Another Wedding

Exciting news - My fiance's niece got engaged over the weekend! (Yes - his niece. He is the youngest of a very big family and his first niece is only six years younger than him!). Like me, she wants to get married all at the same place and not do the church thing. So it has been sort of fun to pull out my old files and hand over some of the sites that I loved, but couldn't do. She is teetering back and forth on getting married either in the city or heading out to the suburbs. I rattled off a couple downtown sites off the top of my head, but would love anyone else's input...She is definitely looking for something unique and possibly inexpensive (HA!).

Downtown Chicago
The Stadium Club at Wrigley Field (I am not kidding. My friend just went to a wedding there a couple weeks ago and said it was awesome!)